Your ability to get real is the key to your child's success.

Your ability to get real is the key to your child's success.

How to become the parent your child needs in the chaos of our digital lives.

What Does It Mean to Get Real?

...think the free and feral qualities of the 80s with a modern day twist. ...as in some things in childhood aren't how they used to be but the things that really matter are.

the get real approach doesn't just sound interesting. It's the thing you're afraid to do.

It's the part of you that you keep softening because you don't want to upset them. The boundaries you dissolve. The discipline you back down from ... to keep the peace. Because some part of you actually believes that if you're firm... they'd love you less.

When really

The things you think would make you less loveable... like taking their phones away for a much needed break... are the exact things they secretly crave and would make you #1 in their world and help solidify a lifelong bond of deep trust, unconditional love, and emotional safety.

Protecting + Resetting

In today's distraction saturated world incredible childhoods are still possible and they come from two things: protecting + resetting.

Protection happens when kids are free to be kids again. When screens don't dominate their thoughts and their day. Resetting happens when technology takes its rightful place and young people are free to grow and develop optimally. Then they start to say, "Wow, this is real. I feel good. I like it." When you're able to create those conditions magic happens.

stop the worry and start creating those conditions

Funnily enough most parents don't actually struggle with getting real. They struggle with being consistent with it. They set the boundaries ... and then soften with the implementation. Or they create limits and spend days trying to negotiate with their teen.

when you become the get real parent you become the parent that breaks society's pattern of just going along

Which makes your kid go: "Wait! What's this?" That friction is where all the rewards are in all areas of life!

The Parent Who Just Wants to Keep Them Happy

Today, the parent that just wants to keep them happy is the real problem.

They let their kids run the show. They give them everything they ask for. They prioritize making them happy over facing the uncomfortable conversation.

The parent willing to get real, though? They focus on what actually matters to optimizing their child's growth and development. They care about the bigger picture and what life will look like for their child as a young adult if they don't make changes. They realize if things have to change, they will make that happen. They get comfortable with their kid potentially being upset or uncomfortable.

That switch? That's how you GET REAL.

when you parent from a place of getting real with your kids

The path ahead becomes clearer. You stop prioritizing their comfort over the higher outcome and stop asking: "Are you ok with that?" And you start parenting like you have a plan. Your kids will react and start to take notice. They will feel curious about where this is heading. They will feel challenged by you. And they won't be sure but eventually they will soften.

That's when your parenting hits the next level and... starts to feel like you're getting to your actual goal.

Come Get Real With Us

You don't have to figure this out alone. Inside the Total Digital Reset, we walk you through exactly how to become the parent your child needs in the chaos of our digital lives. Inside you'll:

• understand what's really happening
• protect them by getting clear on the harms
• reset by learning how to take your time and power back
• connect and get real with your kids and figure out a new way forward
• activate your get real journey with your kids and watch them thrive

If you're ready to stop softening and start showing up as the parent your child actually needs, get the Total Digital Reset today.